These are the unedited sex questions from the texts I received  during my presentation at the College of New Jersey on August 27th. The presentation was on healthy sexuality. You can see answers to a lot of these questions at Ask Me The rest I will work on over the next month. I will post them as I go. Thanks for your amazing participation!

Do you have more shirts? Yes you can get them at my Store

When you said not to douche does that mean i shouldnt use something like summers eve?

Is it cool finger my anus

Can I have the vibrator?

I have a friend named marcus and he likes to prowl. what do i tell him?
How to use a vibrator w/ a partner (heterosexual)

have you ever had sex with a celebrity?

What is a good, natural ways to grow your penis?

How stinky is anal?

How did you get over toe sexual assault?

Do u think having sex before marriage is moral?

what are some tricks to orgasm for a girl having sex?

what in your opinion is the best position?

can i have a t shirt

Should you tell your partner if you've been assaulted in the past?

what's the difference from a vaginal orgasm & a gutteral orgasm?

How can you stop someone who's making you feel uncomfortable sexually when you're both drinking?

Is there really such a thing as sex with no strings attached?

The person who introduced u said u were a dominatrix at one point. Did being involved in the bdsm scene help u cope with ur assault? why?

How do you find the gspot

What did you do to improve with your trust issues?

Can i get a tshirt?

You haven't had a drink in 25yrs? How is that possible, you look so young

What if your boyfriend's penis is really big and it hurts?

Can I have a bracelet?! You can read more about the bracelets at http://www.hopebeads.org/jewelrygallery.html

What if both ppl are drunk.. Who raped who?

Is it true if you don't use it you lose it?

How much marijuana did u grow

hat do you hink is a good way to have a healthy relationship while in college if you too are in seprate schools

What what in the butt?
Where can you get an ornament

Now why would u substitute a dildo for a dick...... wtf

If he's too big you should go on top and lean back a bit

How do I convince my best friends mom to have sex with me?

How do you avoid seeming like a fool your first time when your partner has experience?

Do women like it if a guy is clean shaved?

Is it abnormal for a girl to orgasm in 3 minutes?

Lesbian sex?

Could you help me put on condoms?
Is it true that if you don't use it, you lose it?

I have a friend nick and I really like his mom but I don't know how to approach her

My boyfriends penis gets flaccid every time it gets near a condom before he or i can get it on... Is he just nervous

Do u spit or swallow?

How do I convince my best friends mom to have sex with me?

U grew the herb?

I HAVE A REALLY REALLY SMALL WINKY

What's wrong with the pull out method

Is it true that you SHOULD have an orgasm once in a while. Masturbation is healthy ?

whats a good love making song?

What if both ppl are drunk.. Who raped who?

is it true that if you have sex, you will get pregnant and die?

Do u spit or swallow?

I want to give my boyfriend the best blow job but I'm not too sure what to do. I'm so embarrassed because there's no one to tell you what to do can u help?

I'm bi and What does it mean if you like girls but don't want sex and you don't like guys but you want sex.

Weirdest fetish ever seen?

How do we put the pussy on the pedestal and how can we stop?

are blumpkins safe?

My friend has a really hot sister is it wrong to tap that

How did you start your amazingly eclectic lifestyle and career

What if the person watching is drunk. Is it still rape?

how do i pull off a threeway?

How else can u improve ur body image

is it ok to human H?

Have u ever had sex with a midget?

If a guy traps you in a bathroom and says if you don't make out with him you can't leave is that sexual assault

What if i'm embarrassed to say i like being spanked?

The law considers the male responsible in preyvy questionable situations in the state of new jersey

Bigger is really better?

Talk about weed farming! Where did u do it? hydroponic?

why are bras so hard to take off.

is it normal for me to want to watch when my room mate gets changed?

You're an inspiration!!!

What if the person video taping it is drunk. Is it still rape?

I want to give my boyfriend the best blow job but I'm not too sure what to do. I'm so embarrassed because there's no one to tell you what to do can u help?

Do u shave?

Whats your opinion of male sex toys? flesh light for example

My friends dad always grabs my butt is that considered sexual assault?

have you ever done the Alaskan Pipeline?

How do you get some if your shy?

thank you so much.  You're awesome

This girl on my floor wants that nut, what should I do?

How can I get a few rounds with YOU

I want to give my boyfriend the best blow job but I'm not too sure what to do. I'm so embarrassed because there's no one to tell you what to do can u help?

So did you and the guy break up when he found out you had hiv?

How do you have sex if you're hiv positive

I've had a similar journey in life. I respect your strength so much.

is it true that if you have sex, you will get pregnant and die?

You are an absolutely amazing person. Thank you so much for speaking with us. Good luck with everything <3

what if a girl poops on my wiener

God Bless You

I'm sorry for your past terrible experiences =/

Are you still with him?

Do u wanna meet me in the bathroom in 5?

My bf is rreally exotic and likes kinky stuffmmif he beats me is it abusev but I like it

Do u use anal beads?

What's a reach around?

If u dont masterbuate does that mean that u have no sex drive

How many fingers do u use?

Why don't girls like tossing salad

my boyfriend cant last more than 10 min.. how can he last longer

It said you were a dom4natrix. what was that like?
Do women like it if a guy is clean shaved?

I hear blumpkins are gross. Is that true

do you still smoke or farm marijuana?

What do woman prefer most... The rusty trombone, the reverse cowgirl, or the alaskian pipeline

Are blumpkins sanitary?

How do you keep sex in a long distance relationship.

On a scale of 1 to 10, how horny are  you? 9?

Why shouldn't u use more than 1 condom?

is it true that once you go black you can't go back?

you are so AWESOME.

If I'm doing a chick with body image issues is there any way I can help her feel more confident or take her mind off them?

if two virgins have sex with each other without a condom and continually have sex without a condom can they get std's?  

Is being made out by an older man when you are young considered rape?

I love you! <3

I was raped while i was drunk by someone i knew my whole life. Hes having a baby naming it my name i dont want outside help. What can i do on my own?
You mentioning your rape brought tears to my eyes- I relived mine.

Can i have a hug?

How can i find the g spot?

are you married?

Do you know the muffin man?

Have u ever had sex with a female

That was a very good lecture, hilarity ensued!

put the condom on the black dick with your mouth!!!!

What do you really really like?

ok.. so i have great sex with my boyfriend allll the time... but i cant seem to have an orgasm... HELP!

so is 8 inches considered a big penis

are you married/do you have kids?

What's your favorite sexual position?

Wats a cock?

how do i know if i had an orgasm?

How do you nicely tell a girl shes scrapping ur dick with her teeth?

Is semen healthy for you?

Im afriad it wont fit.

Wut is the best way to make a girl cum

Did they ever catch the guys who raped you?

Thank you for sharing your story. Knowing your story and the incredible survivor you are gives me strength.

can i have that giant black penis?

Is it safe to have sex with vegetables? *Happiness

Is it safe to eat the dish on the rag???

Have you ever used the BIG one?

My penis is the size of that dildo.

you sound like bernadette peters =D

Is there any way to surprise a girl with great sex without communication?

What newspaper do you have a column in?

Why do men have nipples?

What about hair?????

What's the best sex position?

when was the first time you had sex after you were raped. Was it hard for you. Excuse the pun.

How do u ask someone if they have a std? u cnt rele kno if they r truthful

If semen touches the vaginal area but not exactly goes in what are the chances that you will get pregnant

Is it possible to catch herpes from a toilet seat?

what can you do if your partner's vagina is too tight?

Do you consider anal sex a safe and fun  alternative?

what you doin tonight?

whats more important? Quality or quantity?

And for the record, I've seen someone who has a penis nearly as big as that black dildo.... It scares me.

Do u prefer white or black?

how should you ask your partner about stds without offending them?

Why is the big penis black?

heyyyy gorgeous wat u doin laterr?

My penis is the size of that dildo! No joke!

Whats the average time before a guy cums?

do you like guys who play mindsweeper?

are you single? ;)

How can u tell if the condom "works"? like if it has a hole or made with weak latex?

Is it ok that when I masturbate my penis turns bright green?

Is it true once you go black you can never walk again nor go back

Do different foods change the flaver of ur cum

My girlfriend doesn't enjoy clitoral stimulation  is the gspot just as good?

What's more important, the size or the thickness? In terms of the feeling for the girl..

What does it taste like when a guy eats out a girl?

what happened to your friend that night?

How many carbs are in seamen

when was the first time you had sex after you were raped. Was it hard for you. Excuse the pun.

Are you down with the brown? ;)

Can I have a shirt please?!?
Oma.
if a girls set-up is tiny and the guys dick is pretty big can it mess up her insides in any way?

Are spitters really quitters?

Does semen whiten teeth?

Was that how you lost your virginity?

Where you really a dominatrix?

Is river your real name?

I think you are such a terrific person. And your part about self esteem and body image was beautiful! Thank you for coming to talk to us.

What is the best sex position for women to achieve a mindblowing orgasm?

i just want to let you know that i suffer from an eating disorder and i applaud your recovery. keep it up!

Boxer or briefs?

Wat do women really want thickness or lenght.

What does toss the salad mean?

Why does sex hurt for the female the first time??

How many people have you had sex with

Is it strange for me, as a guy, to prefer giving oral over using my penis?

What makes a girl squirt

can i have that giant black penis?

do you perfer sex on an empty or full stomach?

Can u have sex with a womens nostril

Is it bad to go from vag to anal sex?

Does the pineapple/mango trick really work?

What do a shark and a condom with a hole in it have in common?
-you dont want to fuck with either of them

How deep do u need to b to transmit semen?

Could u tell us about being a dominatrix?

Are you down with the brown? ;))

Is feminine wash better than a douche bag ?

What do a shark and a condom with a hole in it have in common?
-you dont want to fuck with either of them

are you married?

When I have sex with a girl deeply I begin to hit something hard close to the back. What is that?

When was the last time you masturbated?

How bad does it have 2 b 2 b assault

Did you get your shoes from a sex store...where can i get them?

my sister was raped in israel and she was all alone. my family and i were still in the u.s. she came back all bruised and depressed. since then, i havent been able to enjoy a woman because im afraid tohurt them. i dnt want another girl to feel how shes does. i feel guilty

What does bungee jumping and hookers have in common?
-they both cost money and if the rubber breaks your screwed

 My friend said said can orgasm in two minutes. Is she lying? What the hell.

Is bondage illegal? Why?

Can you really give someone herpes by having oral sex with someone while you have a cold sore?

does precum affect pregnancy

Yo whatchya doin tonight? ;)

How is it that urine and semen come from the same hole?

Can I use grape jelly as lubricant?

Are threesomes ok? How many people makes it weird?

How do girls masturbate?

You say sex and alcohol don't mix. What about sex and weed?

Is it ok if my penis is a golden sceptor of justice???

Yay Jews!!!!!

Its not gay if you only put the finger in up to the first knuckle, right?

My penis wears a sweater.

Do you like chores?

How do you nicely tell a girl shes scrapping ur dick with her teeth?

why is nudity ok in an art musuem but not on tv?

If semen touches the vaginal area but not exactly goes in what are the chances that you will get pregnant

Have you heard of Walk A Mile in Her Shoes? TCNJ had one three years ago.

 of your a hermaphrodite, can u have sex with urself

How can you be a virgin with genital herpes?

If I got a moustache rider on my face and I start to feel nausous, what is the proper disengagment to vomit technique?

Can stds b transmitted by other means than sex? i.e. aids, hiv, the clap, syph

Most people think I'm not a virgin because prefer jumbo tampons, but it's not my fault I have a wide-set vagina and a heavy flow.

 can you subsitute a dildo with a cucumer

safe sex is great sex, you better wear that latex, cause you dont want that late text, that "oh i think im late" text.

Minesweeping turns me on. Should I consult a physician?

Do you like chores? Because i think you love chores!

Are you gonna change your phone # tomorrow?

Hi my name is brandon lam and i am a homosexual man

Were u really a pot grower?

Do you still grow or smoke weed?

Can I guy tell the deference between a virgin and some one who had sex b4

are there any tricks to not cum

Have u ever given or hears of a footjob?

u r a beautiful person.

If semen touches the vaginal area but not exactly goes in what are the chances that you will get pregnant

Whats the longest relationship you've had with one person?

how can you have fun hookups without people thinking you're a skank?

If neither of you verbally say yes, but you make advances but arent sure if they want that but the other goes with it, is that considered consent?

Im the guy behind you...you were pretty funny...that whole talking to us before made me chuckle...i felt like i was in the pagemaster...good try

Why is it that sex seems painful?

What am I hitting when i'm having sex with ny gf and I go deep?

You are amazing! :] thank you for the useful information

I think youre soo funny, strong and confident. Thanks for sharing your story :)

Is it safe for a man to do oral sex on a woman that has history of uti's n wats ur website

How to convince my lady friend to blow ...  I hinted at hj for a long long time before it happened...  And now i don.t want to make her uncomfortable...

 I know...  Communication !  But ...  What to say ?!  Haha

thank you for your presentation today. you were wonderful and an inspiration.