Here are some more of the txts I received from the University of Illinois in Springfield and students at The College of New Jersey.

The questions are about sex, love and relationships and whatever else comes up while I am presenting my show, SEXED.

Why are there times when a man can’t get hard?
There can be a number of contributing factors to this problem. The first is medical. Take a trip to the doctor to make sure all is well medically. They can prescribe drugs for erectile dysfunction. Then there is stress and performance anxiety. Try going slow to help alleviate these factors do not focus on intercourse or penetration, try erotic massage, mutual masturbation, sex toys. If he does not respond, do not focus on the problem but go onto something else, make like it is not a big deal. The more focus you put on the problem the less likely anything will happen. You can talk about it later.

is it ok to yell GUHHH!!!! when uu bust a nut?
If that is what moves you, sure but be cognizant of those around you if you are trying to be covert this might give you away.

Why do guys like pulling hair while they have sex?
Not all guys like to do this but some do so do some women. Our sexuality is informed by many things so what might be arouse one person can be a complete turn off for another. If you don't like having your hair pulled or anything else during sex be sure to let your partner know. You can say it in a nice way but be firm, this is not something you enjoy.

Do u like to be spanked? How hard?
People ask me all the time do I like to be spanked, what is my favorite position, how many orgasms can I have in a row etc. I don' t see the benefit is sharing this information because I am married and I won't be having sex with you and this is information I would share with a potential partner.

Aug 27, TCNJ

Can u still give  someone a cold sore if u dont have a break out?
Yes, with herpes simplex one and two no sore has to be present to spread the virus due to viral shedding. If you know that you have a tendency to have cold sore this needs to be discussed before having oral sex you can also look into taking valtrex  as a prophylactic.

Are girls with larger breasts more sensitive to having them played with? Can they cum faster from doing so?
Not necessarily. The size of the breast does not effect sensitivity. The are a coulee of factors that might affect sensitivity, one is the amount of nerve endings in the breast and nipple area, which can vary from person to person. Also if the breasts are natural, or have been modified in anyway can effect sensitivity if a person has had enlargement , reduction or implants sometimes they can have numbness or over sensitivity. The mental state can also effect sensitivity if a person has issues around their breasts whether it is size or assault or just another perhaps unrelated experience they might also have more or less sensitivity. With each partner if you are attuned to them and especially if you ask you will find out if breast play is something that aroused them and increases the ability to reach climax faster.

Can u provide us condoms?
No I always suggest that you buy your own condoms that way you know where they have been. Condom have the least error rate if they have been kept in a cool dry place and have not expired ( always check the expiration date which should be on each individual condom).

How can u keep a erection for a longer time?
One of the bet ways is to masturbate at least an hour before you think you might be having sex, maybe even a few times if you tend to ejaculate quickly. You can also use a condom, just one thought something using two condoms is better but the friction between both condoms can cause them to break. There are also creams you can buy that cause a numbing sensation and this will help as well.

is there sperm in pre-cum?
Yes and it is enough to transmit STDs and get a person pregnant.

i have a boner.
This is not uncommon in your men

When you said not to douche does that mean i shouldn't use something like summers eve?
No your vagina is a clean mean machine. Really the only thing you need to use is water to clean the vagina of course you can use soap but this can also cause drying and itching because most soaps are a derivative of a detergent so it is always best to either just clean hourly with water or use a gentle soap. If you douche to get clean you disturb the Ph balance of the vagina and this lowers it's ability to keep bacteria, viruses at bay often setting up an environment for yeast infections and lower the vaginas natural ability to defend your body against bacterial infections. If you feel burning, itching discharge it is bet to a gynecologist to give you an accurate diagnosis by self medicating you can often make the problem worse.

Is it cool finger my anus?
If that is something you like go for it.

Do you know the size of Harry Potters wand?
My husband thought is this was funny and of course I don' know

Can I have the vibrator?
Of course! You can there are many places you can get one at including:
www.GoodVibes.com 
http://www.edenfantasys.com/
www.AdamEve.com