Here the text questions I did not get to answer when I was presenting at Bryant University on February 17, 2011.

Did u have sex after you found out u had HIV?

Yes, with both positive and negative partners. The general rule for me is not to let my vaginal secretion or blood into another person’s bloodstream. That leaves a lot of possibilities.

 

After you found out that you were HIV positive what happened between you and your boyfriend?

It was a short-term relationship. Once he found out he disappeared for a long time.

 

Was the guy really the one? No

 

What's your brother's name? Steve Shull

 

Are you still with the guy you got tested with in college? No

What are your thoughts on nuva ring? It is something you need to decide with you and your physician. If you do not want to get pregnant it is important to have a reliable form of birth control but know that it will not protect you from STDs

 

What did you boyfriend say after you got tested? He was in shock. He tried to comfort me but I think he wanted to get as far away from me as possible

 

What do you think about blumpkins? It is a person preference.

 

My friend was drunk and tried to have sex with a poster. Does he have a problem? Yes

 

Are u married now?  Yes, I have been together over ten years married for over 8 years. 

 

Is it true that if you don't use it you lose it?

No, you might feel a little awkward at first the most important thing is to communicate with your partner and find out what they like and go from there.

 

How long were u a dominatrix? I was a dominatrix for about a year.

 

How come when u swallow cum you don't get pregnant because doesn't it come out of your vagina? The semen is digested in the stomach so the sperm does not make it to the uterus to fertilize a possible egg that has found its way down the fallopian tubes from the ovaries.

 

What weed did you grow on your farm? All kinds of variations of sinsemilla.

 

Have u ever gave a dirty sanches? No

 

Can u put the condom on with your mouth again?

You can see a step by step tutorial on my facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/pages/River-Huston/53449996633#!/pages/River-Huston/53449996633?sk=app_2392950137

 

How do you feel about the pull out method? It is the riskiest sort of birth control and will also not prevent transmission of STDs. There is pre-ejaculatory fluid often involved and this is enough to transmit disease as well fertilize an egg causing pregnancy.

 

Do you know of many HIV positive people that have a lot of unprotected sex? I know some couples that are both HIV positive who have unprotected sex as well as couples where one is positive and the other is negative. In those cases they have made a choice together. If a person is on HIV medication and they have no detectable virus in their blood, the thinking is there is not in thier semen or vaginal secretion as well and they cannot transmit it for more info on this go to: http://www.aidsmap.com/page/1429357/.  There are other people out there either that do not know they are positive and having sex or do know and just don’t care for a number of reasons including anger, resentment, denial and depression.

 

What's your favorite thing to do without a condom? Be intimate, present and loving in whatever activity we choose.

 

Do u use sex toys? Yes!

 

Can do it in the butt and not get aids? Having unprotected anal intercourse is the riskiest form of sex because the fragile tissues lining the rectum are vulnerable to breakage allowing semen to enter the bloodstream in this manner.

 

Do you have kids? No I have dogs and chickens

 

How do I make girls wet? Every girl is different and it is important to learn what turns on each individual person. You can do this by talking or when you are being intimate to see the physical results of your actions.

 

How do you know if a girl is really faking it or not? Sometimes it is very hard to tell but when I women climaxes there are physical signs An orgasm consist of rhythmic muscle contractions occurring in the outer third of the vagina as well as the uterus and anus. The skin flushes, areoles get darker, muscles keep contracting, and blood pressure, heart and respiratory rate  increase. The first muscle contractions are the strongest, occurring at a rate of about 1 per second. As the orgasm continues contractions become less intense, and occur at a more random rate as the orgasm draws to a close. But if a womeen chooses to fake it sometime her exertion can mimic some of these signs. 

 

How much does the black dildo cost and where can I get one? I think it was about $35 and I got it at the Pleasure Chest in NYC I am sure you can find something similar online.

 

What is your favorite position? There are many but the questions for me is who is my favorite sexual partner and that is my husband.

 

What's the best way to initiate a threesome? With lots of communication. If one person does not seem especially in to it and they are your primary partner, forget about it. It spells disaster for the relationship. If it is two women/men that you are not currently involved with, start a talk about sex and lead into it. It is important to  be sober so that there is no mixed communications going on and everyone agrees on whatever ground rules or boundaries you set.

 

Can you put the condom on the black dildo with your mouth? No

 

Have you ever been with another girl?  Yes several I feel I am bi-sexual but prefer men.

 

Is it true that when the red rivers are flowing, you take the dirt path? You can have sex when a woman is menstruating but if you prefer anal just make sure you ask they consent.

 

Is that dildo on stage a replica of Franck’s cock? I don’t know Frank but I don’t think so.

 

Thought on anal??? It is up to each individual’s personal preference most important thing is to be safe by using lots of lubricant on the out side of the condom and going slow to start.

 

Is it weird to have sex with stuffed animals? No, it is a personal preference and there are whole groups of people who enjoy this activity.

 

Whets the best way to initiate phone sex??    Any hints?? Go in the direction of asking more and more intimate questions if they seem to enjoy it then continue the conversation to whichever level feels comfortable for both parties.

 

What is your view on sex in the shower?

Sex anywhere that both people consent is fine as long as you are being safe.

 

Does anal hurt? It can especially if you have never done it before so it is important to go slow and use lots of lubricant on the outside of the condom.

 

Is it true that once you go black, you never go back? Not true.

 

Sooo like.... can i borrow that dildo some time? No, it is a demonstration dildo.

 

What does D.P. mean?  Dr Pepper? I am not really sure.

 

do you need a condom for anal? Absolutely

 

Should guys have pubic hair?  If it is their or their partner’s preference some good reason to have pubic hair- pubic hair retains pheromones, which attracts the opposite sex and keeps the genitals warm.  Neither is absolutely needed to survive so shave away if that is your preference.