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May 13, 2009
Dear River,
I wanted to see what your thoughts on
same-sex relationships were? Why do you think that girls are sometimes
attracted to other girls even if they have never been before? I’d really
appreciate it if you could get back to me
Thank you so much,
Just Curious
Dear Just Curious,
When it comes to sexuality in our culture we have these boxes- gay,
straight, bisexual. In reality we can be attracted to people for a number of reason
that has little to do with labels. Most people have the capacity to be
attracted to their own gender and there is nothing wrong with this. It can go
from just appreciating the female body to wanting to engage in sexual activity
to exclusively being in a relation with the same gender. Another though is that
Sometimes, especially with women, we have such close relationships, that often
we have the same feeling towards "friends" that we might have in a
love relationship. We fall in love with each other and it may have nothing to
do with wanting to have sex. We just want to be close and intimate. It can be
confusing especially when our culture has such strong feelings about same
gender relationships.
I would suggest to anyone dealing with these feelings that they sit
down with non-judgmental professional (therapist, counselor) and sort
through the feelings. I am a strong believer in getting help from a professional
when I’m confused. It does not mean there is a thing "wrong" with me.
I just need to have a different perspective.
I wish you the best!
River
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